“You are your own Alternative” – The Alternative Wedding

Its something that has always intrigued me.. what exactly is the “Alternative Wedding”

A wee trot around the internet kind of rounded it up as non traditional, quirky, creative and about the independant couple.

Recently I have seen lots of social media from wedding suppliers “looking” for these so called alternative Weddings or couples.

The Wedding Industry kind of gets a little bit obsessed with being different all the time which is good in a way as keeping an open and creative mind is great but not to the detriment of those wanting something a wee bit more traditional.

Being your own alternative makes it the most unique Wedding it can be.


luke holroyd photography, winter wedding, snowy wedding


Don’t get me wrong, I live and breathe Weddings, I adore all the vibrancy, creativity and general amazingness that is around us.

I also love all the wealth of talent that is out there, with new and promising people coming through all the time, but certain things make me a bit cross.

Firstly the words “Unique” and “Alternative” – Unique to me is about whats individual to a couple. That in itself makes them unique.


Michelham Priory Wedding, fitzgerald photographic


You don’t have to categorise yourself with a genre or theme to have a great Wedding, you just have to stay true to yourselves.

While your Big Day might have similarities to others, it is instictively your own as there is no-one the same as you as a couple.

And my view of “Alternative Weddings” means putting your own stamp or spin on things on it, even if that means going down the road of what is seen as some as “Fluff” or tradition.

I don’t even like that description, what might be one person’s fluff, might be one person’s perfect.

Wherever your inspiration comes from. it all comes down to what is right for you, and not anyone elses opinion about what particular sector of Weddings is best, or coolest, or defining.

You just have to be your own brand of Special !


wedding_photography, Levi Finland, ice chapel wedding, sarah Jewell Photography


Secondly, I pride myself in not sticking myself in a genre, I would rather be all encompassing, and open to all kinds of ideas.

Every day I see things that really open my eyes, and I think Wow, what an industry to be a part of !

Sometimes because the Blog is eclectic it can be seen as boring or not the most enlightening , but I would much rather be me, and do what I believe in, which is helping people get exactly what they want, WHATEVER  way they want it.

That means sharing Weddings from those that are tradition rich to the most zany.


leeds castle, red wedding dress, ian stuart dress, yvette craig photography


I share some thoughts from some Wedding Industry professionals…

“Every Bride should be true to herself and plan her wedding without feeling the pressures of having to “tick boxes” to show everyone else that they conform to societies perception of cool.”

Another says “It shouldn’t matter if you are crazy alternative or traditional – there is SO much pressure to be original and ‘unique’ in weddings now, and it turns what should be a day of fun and celebration into a competition of coolness & originality.”

“I love the wedding industry for the potential to keep things interesting and creative, & love seeing individuals interpretations of their special days.”

“But not if its meant they have had an absolute nightmare getting to that stage – take a step back ladies, and enjoy what it is you’re there for in the first place!”


engine-shed-wetherby-wedding, colin murdoch studio photography


The Wedding Industry in the UK is huge, and has room for everyone and their own ideas, whoever and what ever they may be.

As a friend of mine said recently, without the supposed “Fluff” or Tradition that the Wedding Industry is largely made up of, then there wouldn’t be an industry to be different in, and to shine out as something shiny and new.

Different is good, I surprise myself sometimes by what I see, and what I like but this industry is built on all kinds of wonderful in whatever shape and form that is.


Let It Snow , venetia Norrington, firetop photography, winter wedding styled shoot, venetia norrington photography


When it all comes down to it YOU are your own alternative.

You can be your own trendsetter and you can assert your own identity all over your Big Day.

Being your own beautiful self, being authentically you makes your Wedding alternative anyway as there is no one quite the same as you.


 Image Credits

Picture 1: Luke Holroyd Photography

Picture 2: Fitzgerald Photographic


Picture 3: Sarah Jewell Photography

Picture 4: Yvette Craig Photography

Picture 5: Colin Murdoch Studio Photography

Picture 6: Venetia Norrington Photography


UK Wedding Blogger with an eclectic style based in Glasgow

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